1/17/2023 RTIR Newsletter: Presley’s Probate Problems, Actress Dee Wallace, Real Heroes

01. Legal Expert: Lisa Marie Presley’s Probate Issues
02. Commemorate Holocaust Remembrance Day
03. What Makes a Real Hero?
04. Iconic Actress on New Peacock Series, ‘Paul T. Goldman’
05. New Choking Technique Could Save a Life
06. The GOP’s George Santos Problem
07. Surprising Parallels Between Trump and Lincoln
08. What Terrifies Actors About Award Season?
09. The Real Story: The Fight to Eradicate Smallpox
10. How to Accomplish More by Seeing What Others Miss
11. Go from Stupid to Genius in 3 Simple Steps
12. What Your Kids Can Teach You About Being a Better Parent
13. The #1 Mistake Parents Make That Affects Kids’ Self-Esteem
14. Do You Know the 5 HABITs of Grief?
15. How Drama Queens Get That Way

1.==> Legal Expert: Lisa Marie Presley’s Probate Issues

Lisa Marie Presley, who died suddenly last week, was embroiled in a ferocious legal duel with ex-husband Michael Lockwood to increase his monthly child custody payments. With her death, the case will now be closed, but a battle could erupt if ex-husband Lockwood goes after her estate in Probate Court. “Once someone dies the family law case dies with them,” according to L.A. lawyer David J. Glass, Ph.D. “In terms of custody, he now has a presumptive 100 percent custody of the kids. In some cases, if she has a sizable estate that is still generating income, interests, residuals, royalties, or those things he could bring a case in Probate Court to have the child support paid from her continuing income.” “He’d have to start all over,” he adds. “He’d have to say: ‘I now have 100 percent custody; I make X amount a year and I understand my ex-wife’s estate makes Y a year – I’m asking for child support to be ordered against her estate.’” Complicating matters even more, it is unknown if the trust established by Elvis Presley included his grandchildren or whether Lisa Marie created her own living trust for the twins. “(Lockwood) has an obligation to maximize his earnings to support his kids,” Glass says. David Glass is one of a few attorneys trained in both law and clinical psychology. He has practiced family law for 23 years. Contact Cherie Kerr at (714) 550-9900; (714) 271-2140 or cherie@kerrpr-execuprov.com

2. ==> Commemorate Holocaust Remembrance Day

Commemorate Holocaust Remembrance Day on January 27 with renowned Jewish scholar Deborah Dash Moore. Moore is the editor-in-chief of The Posen Library, a comprehensive, ongoing project to build an unprecedented collection of Jewish writings, political thought, religion, visual and performing arts, music, and cultural contributions from around the globe. Moore can discuss the art and writings of Holocaust survivors since the end of World War II as well as political thought and writings of Jews before, during and after the war. She can also talk about the role of education in responding to the recent rise of anti-Semitism. Once completed, The Posen Library collection will be comprised of 10 print volumes covering biblical times to the 21st century. Currently, five volumes are available in print and online. Deborah Dash Moore, Ph.D., is the Frederick G. L. Huetwell Professor of History and a professor of Judaic studies at the University of Michigan. Contact Johanna Ramos-Boyer at (703) 646-5137; johanna@jrbcomm.com or Erin Bolden at (703) 646-5188

3. ==> What Makes a Real Hero?

On Monday, the nation celebrated Martin Luther King, Jr., the slain civil rights leader who changed the American social and political fabric in profound ways. In the face of all the various unheroics of our times, from waging wars and committing mass murders to lying and cheating to get into college and Congress, psychologist Frank Farley says MLK, Jr., remains a hero for all times. Discuss what makes a hero and what purpose heroes serve in society with Farley, professor emeritus at Temple University and the former president of the American Psychological Association. He’ll share the three categories of heroes —situational, life-long and 911 heroes — and explain five dimensions in the understanding of heroism. Contact Frank Farley at (215) 881-7776; frank.farley@comcast.net

4.==> Iconic Actress on New Peacock Series, ‘Paul T. Goldman’

Peacock’s “Paul T. Goldman” is a mind-bending mini-series that mixes fact and fiction to share the bizarre story of Paul T. Goldman, a divorced father who uncovers his second wife’s massive (alleged) crime ring. Goldman himself stars in the unconventional mix of documentary, reality TV, and dramatized reenactments, and actor Dee Wallace of “ET” fame, plays Terri Jay, a psychic medium and animal communicator (who also appears on the show as herself.) Invite Dee and or Terri to talk about their involvement in the ambitious hybrid series and ask them why the experience gave Dee goosebumps. Dee Wallace is an Emmy-nominated actress, a best-selling author and an authority on the art of self-creation who hosts the weekly call-in “Conscious Creation Radio Show.” Terri Jay has been doing readings by phone around the world for over 30 years. Contact Harlan Boll at harlan@bhbpr.com

5. ==> New Choking Technique Could Save a Life

Choking is a real health threat, especially for the elderly and children. In fact, more people die from choking than die in fires, carbon monoxide poisoning, drowning or accidental shootings. Most people have heard about the Heimlich maneuver used to clear someone’s airway, but now there’s another tool to use if you find yourself in a situation where someone is choking. Invite Anthony “The Big Cheese” Mongiello to share the B.U.D. choking survival technique that he created and has used to save lives. Anthony, the CEO of Formaggio Cheese, will explain the simple three-step technique, when to use it, and how he saved three people from choking using the method. Contact Mark Goldman at (516) 639-0988

6. ==> The GOP’s George Santos Problem

Despite fabricating his resume and lying about his background, George Santos is now serving as the Republican Congressman representing Long Island. According to Debbie Peterson, a former California mayor, planning commissioner, city council member, and author of a new Integrity 101 Series of books, Santos presents the ultimate teachable moment on integrity. Peterson will reveal why we shouldn’t blame the media for not ferreting out Santos’ lies. Instead, she’ll lay the blame on the Fifth Estate, the people, and will explain what voters can do to elect people with integrity to represent them. She is the former mayor of Grover Beach, Calif., and the host of the weekly podcast The Corruption Chronicles. Peterson’s book series includes “The Happiest Corruption: Sleaze, Lies & Suicide in a California Beach Town,” and the newly released “City Council 101: Insider’s Guide for New Councilmembers.” She has also developed an online course, Double Dais: Adventures in Local Government, to help people on both sides of the dais understand their roles and responsibilities. She studied journalism, radio-TV, and public relations at California State University, Fresno, and the University of Idaho. Debbie Peterson at (805) 550-4490; DebbiePeterson805@gmail.com

7. ==> Surprising Parallels Between Trump and Lincoln

Donald Trump has been one of the most controversial presidents of our times, with a love-him-or-hate-him line that practically divides the country in half. He has even drawn fire from members of his own party, leading some to claim that he has ruined the Republican Party. However, author Gretchen Wollert will argue that’s not the case. This guest, who has a degree in history, will discuss the many startling similarities between Donald Trump and Abraham Lincoln. She’ll discuss why Trump will determine the future of the Republican party, and much more. An educator, entrepreneur, and farmer with appearances in local, regional, and national shows, Gretchen is the author of “Born to Fight: Lincoln & Trump.” Ask her: What is the only thing standing in the way of a socialist America? Why do you say that Trump can’t be “canceled”? What do you see ahead for the Republican party in American politics? Contact Gretchen Wollert at (307) 338-2807; gwollert@rtirguests.com

8. ==> What Terrifies Actors About Award Season?

We are in the middle of Hollywood’s award season when actors strut the red carpet and mug for the cameras. Some may worry about their fashion choices or tripping on stage, but many actors will be nervous for another reason, and it’s not about whether they’ll win or lose. “I work with a lot of people in the entertainment industry and the surprising thing about coaching actors is their fear of public speaking,” says public speaking coach Nina Surya. “Actors are used to being in character. When they have to speak as themselves, it can be terrifying.” The ability to speak effectively doesn’t just affect show biz folks. It impacts everyone when it comes to achieving success, including when giving presentations at work to speaking on the phone and communicating in everyday life. Nina is the president and CEO of UniqueSpeak Consulting and has served as a speech and communication coach to top-level executives, politicians and public figures. Contact Nina at (310) 359-0787; nsurya@rtirguests.com

9. ==> The Real Story: The Fight to Eradicate Smallpox

Fighting a deadly virus is complicated. It took 10 years and a global campaign for the world to eradicate smallpox. Bee Bloeser and her two young children became involved when the CDC dispatched her husband to Africa in 1969. From being welcomed by cheering Africans to encountering witch doctors, a ten-acre mass grave, and living under a brutal dictator in remote Equatorial Guinea, Bee can discuss the exhilarating moments, unexpected challenges, and why she and her children were eventually evacuated after an incident with a simple child’s toy. Bee Bloeser has been featured on NPR’s Journeys of Discovery and NPR KCBX Radio’s show, Issues and Ideas. Her book is “Vaccines and Bayonets: Fighting Smallpox in Africa amid Tribalism, Terror and the Cold War.” Ask her: What are the similarities and differences between fighting smallpox and COVID? What was it like fighting a pandemic across battle lines of civil wars and the Cold War? Did she face resistance, and by whom? Contact Bee Bloeser at (520) 214-5971; bbloeser@rtirguests.com

10. ==> How to Accomplish More by Seeing What Others Miss

Want to be savvier? More competitive? Wiser? Wish you could develop a wisdom detector that would let you see patterns others fail to notice? If this wish list sounds too good to be true that’s because you have yet to meet Steven Feinberg, a top 1% business coach in the country who has advised Apple, Google, LinkedIn, Visa, Oracle, FedEx and more. Steven is a neuro strategist who can talk about why the logical solution too often fails and share lessons he learned from his father, a big-time bookie who taught him how to deal with uncertainty. As a child, Feinberg slept on a fire escape because he didn’t have a bed. In his youth, he worked as a doorman, cab driver and carnival barker. His latest book, “Do What Others Say Can’t Be Done … Play The Meta-Game,” features interviews with 50 world-class leaders and entrepreneurs. Robert Sharpe, head of Apple Data Centers said about the book, “I have been privileged to meet a few special individuals who opened my eyes to knowledge, perspectives and tools that equipped me to be a better person and leader. Without question, Steven is one of those people.” Ask him: Why do so many people remain stuck? What three behaviors let you do what others say can’t be done? Contact Steven Feinberg at (650) 374-4540; sfeinberg@rtirguests.com

11. ==> Go from Stupid to Genius in 3 Simple Steps

Do you ever feel like you’re not living up to your potential as a human being? If you believe you’re not that smart or you’re looking to level up your intelligence, Lee Vallely can show you how to become a genius in three simple steps. His traffic light system helps you recognize and access all three of your brains (not just the one in your head!). This system frees you step-by-step from the paralyzing anxiety that’s holding you back from achieving everything you want out of life. A transformation coach specializing in anxiety and phobias, Lee has helped thousands of people drastically improve their lives. He is the author of the upcoming book “Kick the Sh*t out of Social Anxiety.” Ask him: Why do you say people have three brains? What steps can we take to move from stupid to genius? What four things can we do to overcome anxiety right now? Contact Lee Vallely at (561) 658-1266; lvallely@rtirguests.com

12. ==> What Your Kids Can Teach You About Being a Better Parent

Most parents think they know what’s best for their kids. But author Jerry Bures claims we have it all wrong. “We can learn a lot about parenting from our kids by taking cues from them,” he says. “They will give you clues on how to handle them.” As a dad to six kids, including one with significant special needs, Jerry had to learn how to deal with the pressures of what he calls “crisis parenting,” which made him a better dad. He can share how parents can best connect with their children, so that they may become successful adults. Jerry is the author of “When Kids Leave Clues: 26 Timeless Stories of Inspiration & Essential Life Lessons Taught to Us by Our Own Children.” Contact him at (920) 796-9160; jbures@rtirguests.com

13. ==> The #1 Mistake Parents Make That Affects Kids’ Self-Esteem

No parent wants their child to feel bad, but did you know that the ways you try to “fix” them may actually be harming their ability to feel good in the long run? Educator and life coach Valerie Whetstone, the author of the new children’s book “Oh No, Riley!,” reveals how to help an unhappy child understand and identify their emotions rather than covering them up, so they can address problems head-on and learn to feel proud and good about themselves. In addition, Valerie offers plenty of tips for parents on how to take time for themselves without feeling guilty, recovering from overwhelm and burnout, energy hacks to help them stay motivated every day, and much more! Ask her: How can I help my child explore their emotions without harming their self-esteem? What are some “power words” kids can use to become more positive and confident? How can I get my kids to do hard things without getting frustrated and giving up on themselves? Contact Valerie Whetstone at (408) 752-5943; vwhetstone@rtirguests.com

14. ==> Do You Know the 5 HABITs of Grief?

Losing a loved one can be a crippling blow from which you never seem to recover, especially since most people have no idea how to deal with such a loss. Frank DiMaio has been there. After losing his wife to breast cancer, he found there was no real support or guidance for surviving husbands — so he set out to develop that. Now, Frank shares insights from his journey of healing with your audience. He can help anyone say no to defeat and move forward from being emotionally stuck, whether through loss of a loved one or grief stemming from major life changes, through his system of positive HABITs. Frank’s new book is “A Promise Made, A Promise Kept: A Husband’s Journey Through Journaling to Heal the Loss of His Spouse.” Ask him: What does HABITs stand for, and how does it help deal with grief? Why did you sail to Bermuda following your wife’s passing? What is the best way to address survivor’s guilt after losing a loved one? Contact Frank DiMaio at (401) 205-3325; fdimaio@rtirguests.com

15. ==> How Drama Queens Get that Way

Many people know at least one person who appears to have a black cloud following them. There is always something major going on in their world: a breakup, crisis at work or something else that leads them to claim that they are blameless victims. But how did these drama queens (and kings) get that way and is it possible for them to change? When you explore the role trauma drama plays in people’s lives and its childhood origins with Elizabeth Power you may never look at your relatives, friends and acquaintances the same way again. She is the founding director of The Trauma-Informed Academy and the author of “Healer: Reducing Crises,” which offers everyday actions people can take to recover from traumatic experiences and be more resilient in the face of stress and discomfort. Elizabeth is an adjunct instructor in psychiatry at Georgetown Medical Center and has been on “NBC News,” NPR, and in the “Wall Street Journal.” Contact her at (615) 903-0906; epower@rtirguests.com

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